Living in
an era where more than half of the world’s population is highly dependent on
the new media certainly blurred the boundaries between life, work, and play.
Though the new media does not necessarily pose negative influences towards its
users, it could bring about detrimental consequences if not controlled such as
estranging relationships with our loved ones or stress due to work. Can we ever
recall a time when we see a group of people seated at a table that are not
engrossed with their own mobile devices (e.g. phones, tablets)? Instead of
engaging in deep, fruitful conversations with the people around us, our eyes
are all glued to the screens seemingly showed that we are more interested in the
virtual reality than the reality itself.
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As hurtful
as it may sound, Tabachnick (2013) admitted that technology no longer serves
its purpose for leisure but instead follows us everywhere like a puppy. Work
has taken control over the household and parents have slowly stopped nurturing
their children through physical activities and rather spoil them (especially
their eyes) with mobile devices. Not only families but friends or couples also
find themselves caught in their own bubble when the whole purpose of getting
together is to actually interact face to face. I do admit that I am addicted to
my phone but I learn to resist the urge to check it whenever I am in the
company of my friends or family. But let’s face it, everyone will start
checking their phones at some point and it’s contagious! So can we blame anyone
for that? Frankly speaking, we are all to be blamed.
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Take
Facebook as an example. Since it started in 2004, Facebook has garnered over 1
billion users from all over the world and it is not showing any signs of
slowing down any time soon (Oremus, 2014). Originally used for connecting people,
it gradually turned into a lucrative company that also helps to promote
businesses and products as well as generating news faster than televised ones
and those in print. As a result, the term ‘social media’ comes to fore. Kaplan
and Haenlein (2010) defined social media as; “A platform whereby content and
applications are no longer created and published by individuals, but instead
are continuously modified by all users in a participatory and collaborative
fashion” (p. 61). This means that users can create, share, and exchange
information without having to meet in person. However, the term has been around
earlier than assumed as Kaplan and Haenlein discovered but was not widely known
at the time.
With an
abundance of information that can be obtained through our fingertips, there is
no denying that everyone is hooked on this current form of media. Facebook is
not the only one. Twitter, Instagram, WhatsApp, to name a few are basically
controlling our daily life with all kinds of features that encourages us to
share information.
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I am fortunate to have been raised without
technology constantly taking over my life though I was also exposed to the
Internet as early as 10 years old. I enjoyed being active outdoors and having
real quality time with my family. Yet nowadays, I see many families paying more
attention to their phones than actually talking to each other. Personally, I
find myself and the people around me picking up the habit lately but only when
necessary. Therefore, it is hard to encourage “unplugging” among the family
either on weekdays or weekends as we rely so much on the new media to function.
However, it is possible to practice this as early as possible in order to keep
a good balance between work, life, and pleasure. It is just a matter of
initiative and control.
Reference
Kaplan, A. M., &
Haenlein, M. (2010). Users of the world unite! The challenges and opportunities of social media. Business
Horizons, 53(1), 59-68.
Oremus, W. (2014, February 3). Facebook was born 10 years ago. Here’s what it looked like. Future Tense. Retrieved from: http://www.slate.com/blogs/future_tense/2014/02/03/facebook_10th_anniversary_social_network_turns_10_looks_back_at_its_history.html
Tabachnick, D. E. (2013). Technology is blurring the line between work and play. The Globe and Mail. Retrieved from: http://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/technology-is-blurring-the-line-between-work-and-play/article8412565/
Whittle, J. (2015, October 2). How technology blurs the lines between work and home life. Engineering and Physical Sciences Research Council (EPSRC). Retrieved from: https://www.epsrc.ac.uk/blog/how-technology-blurs-the-lines-between-work-and-home-life/